Trauma, grief & healing

The depths and breadths of love, loss, trauma, and rebirth, including experiences as a rape and sexual abuse survivor, death, childhood trauma, love lost, and love gained.

To go forth and multiply

To go forth and multiply

Adjusting his eyeglasses, the priest read Genesis 1:28. “This is the most misunderstood…

Attract  versus chase

Attract versus chase

The right person sees what they’re going to miss before they do. They will do what it takes not to lose it. That’s how mature love is.

A dog’s passing

A dog’s passing

I’ve been fostering since I was a kid and never get used to pets dying. But maybe I shouldn’t. Maybe this is what love feels like when it has nowhere to go.

On your birthday

On your birthday

My skull does not intend to tilt on its axis, but every 24th an arrival & a departure squaring my moon: day we met, day we parted, day you were born.

After separation

After separation

A poem on remembering the good after separating from someone.